I think the list of "how to be a woman" should be exactely the same... Values like courage and loyalty are things all humans should strive for, not just the male ones.
I for one, will not start whimpering and hide in my womanly tower waiting for some big strong man to rescue me, when confronted by an obstacle. I'll face my fear and kick its ass!(and then ask the big strong man out on a date, hehehe
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