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Originally Posted by David365  Can I add, having come across this thread for the first time, that you write and deal with the various suggestions with confidence?!
Confidence isn't a permanent state - how often do you hear sports commentators refer to a player or team losing confidence after a run of bad results.
Its always useful to remind ourselves of what we are good at, our successes. If you have a tendency towards perfectionism you will hear and dwell on the one critical comment and ignore the multitude of praise. Ultimately its like changing any habit - hard work.
My blog is about self confidence, my recent post Dealing with Perfectionism gives more suggestions.
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Thanks David. I read the article and added you to my rss feeds. I recently have taken up confidence as a central focus on my blog, but I end up talking about meditation. Probably because it's what I'm supposed to talk about. Thanks again.
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Originally Posted by Fullcrum It is a natural and DEFAULT state that arises from deep within us when our connection with reality is strengthened. Quite simply, when we take what is as just what is, without judgement, label, and interpretation, internal peace is a natural consequence. |
That is a great definition. I wrote about this myself in this post
The Confidence Mindset on my blog.
And thanks for the link. You're right, that is an awesome blog.
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Originally Posted by Rafael Perez You create your own beliefs. You have a choice, take control of your dominant belief and become who you want to be right now. |
I think you have written one of the most authentic responses to my question.
And I totally agree with you. Belief is at the heart of the matter.