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Old 05-12-2008, 04:54 AM
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Default Inner self confidence

This is something you share with a lot of people. Lack of self confidence may seem like it is attributed to lack of skills or knowledge but in all honesty does not have anything to do with that.

Your reality is made up of your beliefs. You do not believe yourself to be a self confident person, thus this is your creation. This falls into the realm of "I have no control over how people look at me."

This is something that becomes part of our truth and belief system. But it is not true, in fact it is something that makes you feel down, thus you know it is not in line with who you truly are.

Do not be afraid of coming off as cocky or not knowing something, in fact do not worry about what anyone thinks. Do not try to impress anyone and just be yourself. Become confident in who you are no matter what anyone thinks.

The lack of self confidence goes back to the thought that you are imperfect. This also is a lie we tell ourself. All of us to one degree or another spend to much time living our lives trying to meet others expectations and obligations and fail because it is not in line with our true selves.

We feel like a failure not able to recognize that it was not our intention in the first place. Then we are told that we have failed in some way shape or form by the people in our live growing up.

This becomes our dominant belief.

"I can't seem to do anything right."

You create your own beliefs. You have a choice, take control of your dominant belief and become who you want to be right now.

"I am perfect, I am confident, I am limitless."
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