[Rose of Cairo]

Originally Posted by cylon

Yes, I sure hope I attract a soft, gentle, loving, nurturing lady.

Of course you will, in your reality we're ALL like this by nature, no?

If I attract that I will be happy and hope you'd be happy for me.

Yes I'd be happy for you (am I not soft, gentle, loving and nurturing... )

Men and women react differently to the same things.

How someone reacts to something depends on the thoughts they have about this thing. Their belief system, their judgements about the situation, their values, their past experiences, etc. So yes, different people react to the same things differently. If you take two persons with the exact same thoughts about something, I bet they won't react differently because of their gender. I also don't think that men and women automatically have different thoughts about something just because of their gender. Or do you have a concrete example? Tell me one thing that makes all men react in one way, and all women in some other way?

And, please don't assume I mean it in a negative way.

I know you mean well I know you're not saying that men are better than women. You're just saying their behavior or function is different based on their gender, that's what I don't agree with.