So since femininity makes us soft little puppy dogs, are women then destined to be soft little puppy dogs?
It seems to be a central assumption here that those of us who don't want to play this "men are such and women are such" game are ashamed of our masculinity. But I'm not!
What I get from you now is that I should be ashamed of my femininity.
This article is about the Ideal Male, about ideals. Ideals at best, stereotypes at worst.
I personally don't want to polarize either way. I guess I'd be 49-51. Femininity 49 - 51 Masculinity. Just so that I can be classified as a man, I guess. Ideally(!), I wouldn't control my polarization and what not at all anyway, just let myself be wholly myself. Segregating different qualities into male and female boxes doesn't serve me very well I guess.
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I should also add that I'm not new to these forums, but decided to spice things up with a new identity.
My fangirls will probably recognize me fast enough - but post your guesses via PM, not on the boards. Thank you.