[Jackster]

It seems as if he needs to re-connect with you. Ask him to go back to the time that he was attracted to you, courting you and wanting to be with you and to share with you in the beginning of the relationship. Attempt to rekindle the feelings you had with each other and restart some mutual interests together to spark those feelings again. Also, if he is on any medications that may be stealing his libido, overweight, balding, poor nutrition and circulation, etc.

Since he will not attend needed counseling, If I may recommend some excellent information and DVD on "Sexual Healing" by Gary Null, PH.D.. He is the foremost authority on health, nutrition, alternative treatment, energy and spiritual healing. He has the largest archives on scietific studies, research and peer reviewed published articles in the world!

You can watch the video together. I am positive this is the answer! Good Luck!