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Originally Posted by placebo Michael Chui : I'm risking to lose all these great people around me just because we don't see life in the same way. Some of them are my friends for a long time, I'm meeting so many great and interesting girls. It is scary to whip people around myself beacuse i'm 21 and i think i have a dream. Either i will fulfill it or be alone. |
I'm 21, too, and I have friends who are married, who think they'll be married, who don't have a shot at marriage for the next ten years, and so on. I don't respect them any differently based on that.
So you don't see eye-to-eye. You'll find that millions of people don't. But as long as it doesn't come between your friendship, then I don't see why you'd lose them.
The status quo is rarely perfect; you sound desperate, and you're delivering ultimatums to the universe. Disrupt the status quo and find a new perspective. Traveling the world would be a great way to do that.