I often ask myself, "Why did I put this in my reality?"
For example, my company recently made the entire property smoke-free. You can't even smoke in your car. This didn't go over well with us smokers, which is most of the company. I've never seen so many people chewing on sunflower seeds in my life.
I wasn't too happy about this either. I don't like smoking, but I don't like someone forcing me to quit either. By asking myself, "Why did I put this in my reality?" The responsibility comes back to me. I've wanted to quit smoking for a long time. I don't smoke at home or in the car. My job was the 'final straw' so to speak. |