Drahzar, I think you have to be true to yourself and admit that this is not right, I know they say love is all you need but if someone truly loves you they would never cheat on you, they wouldn't even put themselves in a position where they are more likely to cheat.
It's like they say, actions speak louder than words, and her actions tell you that her needs are more important than the overall relationship with you and her, if her needs are that more important, then it means that she is very selfish and uncaring to your emotional well being.
To sum up what I am saying.... You need to do what steve says and avoid negative people in your life because you can't possibly be happy wondering what she is doing when she isn't with you.
So here's what you do.
Step 1. Break off the engagement.
Step 2. If you live with her, move out asap.
Step 3. Try and break off the relationship, she might try the whole "I'll change" bit or whatever but she has already had enough chances and you know she isn't going to change any time soon.
Step 4. Do not let her contact you, meaning... Make it impossible or extremely hard for her to reach you. Out of sight out of mind works wonders. With her out of the picture, you are free to grow, learn, and enjoy life more.
Step 5. Do the same with your "friend" , what kind of friend sleeps with his friends girlfriend? That's more than a good enough reason to end a friendship.
Conclusion: Actions speak louder than words and these people have wronged you a great deal and have stripped you have your dignity. Do yourself a favor and start rebuilding your self esteem by getting away from these people.
Good luck!  |