For you who are saying that men and women are the same, that's mistaken. Not if each is on the path to ultimate fulfillment. The externals may look the same, maybe, maybe not, but the internals are difinitely different, the motivation is different, just as an example. You'll see the differences if you look more closely (or find a nice article that spells it out).
Remember, men are the out-breath. Women are the in-breath.