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Originally Posted by Dannyboy1  I really don't think I know one man who doesn't look at porn. I've curbed myself off of it, but every once in a while I still watch it. I think it may be delusional to think you're going to find another man who never looks at it. I can tell you that losing your confidence over it will make you less attractive. However, if you laugh about it and jump in and help him when you catch him... If you say "Come on baby, let me help you out..." Make a joke about it and be playful and sexy, he'll probably care less and less about it. It's your confidence and how you handle it that's going to make the difference. Don't be so uptight about a natural urge. If you don't find it a threat and turn it into a playful game of you distracting him from it, it may even enhance your relationship. Do you love him? Then don't drive him away from you... Drag him away from porn. |
I haven't read the rest of this thread, but I have read this post. Just because you can't ween yourself off porn, kiddo, doesn't mean that somebody is delusional for thinking that they may find a man that doesn't look at it. I don't look at it at all, which means the incidence of men that don't look at porn is at least greater than Zero, which stands to reason that it is a lot greater than 1.
Sex may be a natural urge, but that doesn't mean that looking at porn is.
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If you say "Come on baby, let me help you out..." Make a joke about it and be playful and sexy, he'll probably care less and less about it.
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That's a little degrading, isn't it? It's almost like making it a thing whereby porn can be enjoyed together and the porn become a part of their shared sexuality.