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Originally Posted by Zen Diva  I'm just curious can you heal from a broken heart? I had my heart broken 7mnths ago after ending 13yr. relationship. 7mnths later my heart hurts soo bad, I try and forget about him I just find it sooo hard. I know his heart is not broken like mine is. I just wonder if the heart can ever truly heal itself from be broken.  |
Awww *big hug*
Yes it does feel like the heart may not heal. I agree with the first reply about doing new and different activities.
For whatever the reason you broke, dont think about it. Thinking about it will cause more useless pain. But do think about it to the extent of settling it in you.
I dont want to say the saying "plenty of fish in the sea" because it seems to make some people think they can cheat! but since this is a smart peoples forum i think its safe to say it.
You broke up, now what? Focus on what you want. Learn from what happened. And delete it from your mind. Make the pain a black and white, boring and dull memory by visualizing it to be. And look what is coming to you.
When you go through a pain like this, it can show what life is preparing you for. It gives value to love and being with someone. I know you probably heard this so many times everywhere.
But think about it, what if you met the perfect guy straight away. I wonder if that will feel as good, as with meeting the perfect guy after a few bad relationships. however i mean perfect guy as in, who understands you, and who you understand, and both are willing to stay commited to eachother, everything else is perfect from then as long as you keep always working on communication and understanding and also just being POSITIVE.
Hope your pain evaporates fast, like cold water in the sahara desert.
Sel