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Originally Posted by lightthecandle  I feel like its too late to make a close knit of friends.
I envy others who have such a big, close group of friends. why can't i have that. sorry for whining |
Aww come on! WHen you feel like this, that means you need to work on yourself. Develop some "social skills". We all have them naturally, but due to extrenal factors we lose them.
I was in the same position as you a few months ago, until i made a desicion i have to do something about this, and delete negative thoughts. First what i did, was went on amazon and bought a couple of books "How to talk to anyone" and others with high reviews. This helped me at least take 1 step.
Second i started to think positively and behaved as if i already had friends. (Come to think of it, i was using the law of attraction!)
Showing a positive vibration, makes people flok to you. Look at yourself for example. Do you get attracted to people who are negative all the time or positive? EVen if negative stuff has happened to you, by talking about it, your making yourself feel worse, so why not laugh about funny things.
Yes it will be a little uncomfortable to start with, but that shows your going in the right direction.
I havent got many friends but im anyone i do meet suddenly wants to meet me more often. But lately have been so busy with online business that i cannot even meet people.
I was going to say good luck, but you really dont need it. Just be positive, and take steps towards making friends ie:
- Maybe read a few books on communication/social skills
- Go join Clubs that interest you (some sports? or chess club?)
- Join a short course seminar (lot of friends potential since you can pick any course your interested in)
Hope this helps
Sel