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Originally Posted by Ak47  However, i also do not feel i can effectively make friends with her breathing over my shoulder with jealousy and judging everyone i meet behind their backs
Now to be deprived of having more than one friend, more or less, is killing me. I'm horribly lonely because of it.
Yes, she does believe the world to be a bad place. She was incredibly sheltered as a child by her mother
She's afraid to talk to strangers; i've had to speak on her behalf for many, many things when she's standing right there! While that is a bit annoying, i can handle that alone.
Unfortunately, i feel like (for the last 6 months or so) that I'M falling victim to her insecurity. She's attached to me very seriously, which combined with her insecurity is a total disaster. I can't make friends because she feels that she constantly needs my attention.
I'm getting more and more fed up with her infringement in areas that i should have at least some level of liberty (making friends, having time for friends when she's not around, looking at women, or even checking out women for that matter!; i can look but not touch, right?). We do not live together, |
I feel you!
I'm really glad that you posted this thread because I am having the same problem with my girlfriend as well, BUT I am living with her!
After confronting her do you see any changes in her? I would really like to know the outcome of your situation for it may help me as well.
Thank you