In the year or months before you turn sixteen get to be friends with a wide variety of girls at your school so that you can learn to be at ease with them without the pressure to be dating them. See how fortunate you are that you can choose your thoughts. You could see yourself as taking your time and waiting rather than being restricted. When you can date you could also see yourself as being discerning for waiting that length of time rather than "being looked down on." Do activities that you enjoy that channel your creative energy. You'll be a much more interesting person to girls if you have a full life and lots of interests. Use this time in building a strong foundation to be a desirable and attractive date. |