The key points makes sense if someone has listened to the radio show or read articles. Compared to other dating models this one is easy to understand (logical) and focuses on finding a good wife and what to do to keep her in love over the long haul.
On the weekend I could be getting more home phone numbers (if she is not my girlfriend) or organizing my sock drawer. If she asks what I was doing I will say I'm busy. When I am not with her she wonders where I am at and raises interest level.
Guys should always be honest with women and open up very slowly. You can talk about anything with your buddies or dog and they won't hold it against you. Your girlfriend needs to be treated differently if you want her to keep you.
A guy can create his own model of how dating works based solely on trial and error. It can take guys decades and some never figure it out. Before discovering the system I dated dozens of girls and wondered why it only lasted a few dates. I asked the girls and they didn't give me the real reasons. I listened to my parents. I listened to my friends. I read books and men's magazines. Some guys are naturals (3%) and others learn on their own and from accurate models.
Last edited by realloc; 05-08-2008 at 08:17 PM.
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