Yes, I do agree that I need to make a decision. Age isn't a factor, he is 36 and I am 34. He looks at porn - tries to hide it from me, then when I confront him (after he's promised to stop) he just makes excuses (i.e. work schedules different, too tired, sore from work etc...) My husband has more sex with himself then with me. I offer, and get shot down. I offered to look at porn with him, that didn't go very smoothly (I said it was cheesey). He is a great husband, besides the no sex. I guess that is why I haven't left him. Its like being married to my best guy friend, but no intimacy.
