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Originally Posted by Cornfused  Hello - I am new to this and wanted to get some feedback on my marriage and lack of sex life within my marriage. My husband rather look at porn, usually on the internet then have sex with me. We've been together for 6 years and married for 2. We only had sex once on our honeymoon. I'm forever coming onto him and he is constantly rejecting me. He always has some excuse. Its now come to the point where I don't even want him (sexually) anymore. But I don't want to be stuck in a non-sex marriage. Suggestions? |
Sounds like he's got an addiction. He'll never be satisfied with anyone until he stops wasting hours on the internet. I think this is going to be a huge problem for many people in the coming years because it's so easy and free. He has to become aware of the problem before he will even begin to face his problems with you. How much time does he spend on it? Have you spoken directly to him about it? This is a very embarrassing thing for a man to realize, so you have to find a way to suggest he has a problem and if he flips out remain calm. Fighting will not help. Just make a suggestion that he keep a log (no pun intended) every time he sits down to surf the web. Once he sees how much time he's spending, that may be all he needs. He's not living in reality and he has to be brought to realize this before he completely destroys your relationship. You may have to tell him you're thinking about leaving him to make him realize what he would be giving up for some stupid videos.