Hey AK47 ~
In my past experience, the more you cater towards your partners insecurities, the less they will try to overcome them. I know it's hard to not be sensitive to some one that you care abouts pain, but it doesn't really do anything towards creating a dynamic relationship, does it? Judging from your previous posts, it seems like you have an awful lot to offer as far as value in both friendships and as a romantic partner. I don't think that you should be limiting yourself at this point in your life because of your girlfriends insecurities. Let her know how important a full social life is to you, make a plan to start engaging in that life, and see if she's interested in following along.
Good luck! |