That all sounds so familiar. I am far from an expert in these matters, but it rings so true for me that I wanted to contribute my thoughts.
I don't think much you can do will help. She needs to realise that she is the best thing there is in her world. She needs to realise inside her own head that what you think about her doesn't matter and what others think about her doesn't matter, the only thing that should matter to her is how she feels about herself.
I think aside from reinforcing these things there isn't much ese you can do. You cannot make that journey for her.
You can tell her how important she is to you and how great she is but it wont help until the only person she needs to hear that from is herself. |