Society tells you all these "shoulds" - like you should have a "social network/outlet" or you "should" have a girlfriend/boyfriend. What if that is not true? You know, one of my pet hates is the old "your so bogged down in all your selfish issues - you "need" to get out more or "bounce" your ideas off with others.
HAHAH. Oh, its just so pathetic. I once knew someone with all the friends in the world. She was the perfect picture of "normal". Allways on the phone/inviting friends over or watching some crap TV show - only because of its popularity of course. Yet she was one of the most ANNOYING, INSINCERE, BOSSY, SHORT-TEMPERED, BORING AND SHALLOW individuals I have EVER come across. How many people in the world are there like that? Alot I tell you. Too many! Any how insecure - God, she would have teared her hair out if left in solitary confinement for as much as 5 MINUTES!!! Ah, its quite funny isn't it?
On the other hand being lonely can have HUGE advantages.
Define yourself.
Always keep a watch for false information.
See not only the black and white but also the shades of grey in between.
The point is - it is wiser to go into any relationship with an eye not so much for getting but giving. You can only get someting buy acquiring it yourself.
Last edited by Revolution; 05-08-2008 at 06:43 AM.
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