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Originally Posted by Jennihul  But more importantly, if it were me and seemed as futile as your situation seemed, I would pull out some LOA, forgiveness and gratitude and figure out a way to live excellently without his help at all. Because nothing is worth allowing yourself to be robbed of the joy you should be feeling every second of the day. Nor your kids.
Jennifer |
I think this is excellent advice... if you can support your children on your own and if they are not being deprived and not living without necessities.
However, if I were in your shoes and I could not adequately support my children to the point, let's say, that I couldn't afford to buy new shoes for them or a coat when one needs it, or money for a field trip at school, I would go after their father for his share of the support. I couldn't watch my children going without while their father sat on his lazy a$$.