Do you want him in prison? I know some moms who would rather have their ex in prison than be stiffed on child support. They can't earn anything in prison though. And it affects your kid's self-image to grow up with a dad in prison.
Let that be your guide.
However, it's important that someone KNOWS you are being stiffed.
But more importantly, if it were me and seemed as futile as your situation seemed, I would pull out some LOA, forgiveness and gratitude and figure out a way to live excellently without his help at all. Because nothing is worth allowing yourself to be robbed of the joy you should be feeling every second of the day. Nor your kids.
Jennifer
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