Spartan, I am in the same boat as you so I’m really glad you posted. I always have this problem where I am attracted to women but I don’t want to act on it because I’m afraid I’ll seem like a creep. So I tell myself I’ll wait for the right moment to say something, where it won’t seem bizarre, random and weird. But that moment hardly ever comes. The consensus seems to be the same that attraction is worth acting on, worth the risk of looking foolish; and it seems like advice worth taking. My brother has been telling me the same thing with respect to my situation. Really helpful thread! |