 face up to your own limitations
Hi Jost,
I read your post and i felt i needed to say something.
Your post states you want to stop being attracted to girls.
I have two questions, one are you a man? two are you heterosexual? if both answers are yeses, then wishing to stop being attracted to girls is an impossible goal and you should give up.
Based on the previous two assumptions, your problem i am guessing is not that your parents stops you or that you don't like girls, but your own self-beliefs about women and your parental control thats making you wish you could stop liking girls.
There is no reason you "can't" date girls. No one stops you, feelings and fears stops you. Thats all there is to it.
You need to examine what your afraid of, therein lies your problem and your solution |