You need to practice / work on this, but not at all in the way you think.
What is one of your goals right now? Keep that goal in mind for a moment, then ask yourself exactly who is holding you back from achieving it. 95% of the time the answer is nobody is directly stopping you.
You are giving all your attention and focus to the other 5% of the time. You are still making the same mistake - focusing on that which is external instead of dedicating yourself to your goals internally.
The difference between the bigger kids and the bosses of the world and you is that they don't focus on what is stopping them. They do what they want anyway.
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When a resolute young fellow steps up to the great bully, the world, and takes him boldly by the beard, he is often surprised to find it comes off in his hand, and that it was only tied on to scare away the timid adventurers.
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- Ralph Waldo Emerson
What do you want to do, and why aren't you doing it?