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Originally Posted by Averbisadverbera  Im 15 and live in North Ireland. I'm out of school (expelled) and have no friends, and never had any when I WAS in school. People just find me to be a loser as soon as they meet me, for some reason. I don't know what it is. I'm not ugly, and carry myself confidently, so what is it that makes me have no friends? Anyone i've ever talked to has just been completely stand offish, to downright hating me.
I've never been a part of any social circle where im accepted, whether in real life or on the internet. Never had a friend, or a girlfriend, and I doubt I ever will. Whats wrong with me? |
I remember the show Rocky where there's this line he said when he met someone (sorry I really can't remember who was it this sentence was intended for)
"I don't like him"
His boxing instructor (or so I think) then replied "I don't think he likes you either"
So do you like your friends in general? Or do you like interacting with people?Do you have a genuine interest to care for a stranger before they can become your friends? I'm not saying you're not, but I'm just giving an example here ok
Going in with a positive mindset about yourself and the other person will have a higher chance of bringing you postive results.
And yes, go grab that book by Dale Carnegie. It's good!
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Originally Posted by Alarin People are nice to me and help me where before they avoided me. All because of a damn hairstyle  |
Yes Alarin! Never under-estimate the power of a good hairstyle! Or a bad one ...
I just had a change of my hairstyle. Got a fringe and a length much shorter than I would have like, wished and wanted (thanks to my hairdreser), now I look "cuter" than before! Sheesh... how does that help in my profession as a love coach?
