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Originally Posted by lagerk  I do sit down with her and try to brainstorm TOGETHER on what we should do. The best thing she can come up with is "I don't know!"
How can I explore her if her answer is "I don't know?" If I try to go deep into the conversation on what we can do, at times, she would respond "Why are you asking me so much questions?" Is she expecting me to figure out what she likes and what she doesn't?
Not just activities but this goes with dinner as well. When I suggest a restaurant to go to she would be hesitant to go because of my choice. When I ask her where she would like to eat she would respond "I don't know!" 
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oh my god , i am so happy i read that it seems like you are talking about me, unfortunately i have this problem like ur GF - specially this dinner situation- so many times i just have "i dont know " as an answer. i just recognized how much it may be irritating to my partner. anyways i would like to say this doesnt mean she needs a parent and she is not a good partner.
As angela advised i would highly recommend talking to eachother but not in the form of a complain dont tell her i am not satisfied or unfulfilled just figure out a way to make your thoughts reach her without hurting her i would also recommend try to give more to your relationship she may have needs unfulfilled as well. i dont know the exact situation so i cant judge that you are not doing your best already.