I think the real issue isnt that women dont want sex immediately, its that ideally everyone wants sex AND a relationship to develop, and a lot of men have this double standard where they will happily sleep with a woman right away but then will write her off as "too easy" to date- not that all men are this way, but there's enough of them out there to make it a risky choice- earlier sex vs a chance at a relationship; and it would suck to be rejected just because you're "too easy", so women tend to resist. Of course my personal view is that men who can be that self-righteous and hypocritical are not worth dating, so it's ok if they write me off because then at least I haven't wasted my time either. |