ah agree with everyone else that a system of manipulation is ridiculous. there are some reasonable points buried in it but the mindset as a whole is entirely off... but it is true that being desperate to be with a woman is a turn-off, not because she doesn't want you to totally love her, but because she wants you to be able to be independently happy with or without her and not put any pressure on her to inauthentically pretend to be "in love" to prop up your self-esteem. |