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Originally Posted by Parthon

I don't see why it's not possible to be honest, charismatic, and responsible while being a "player" as you put it. My only problem is that if you are one of those guys that has to trick women into sleeping with them by leading them on and giving them false promises just to get them in the sack, then you are making yourself less of a person and more of an animal, giving into your urges and lowering your vibration.

If you follow the very suave and very sophisticated gentlemen and how they interact they have a grounding of character which gives them their charismatic good looks and that's what gets them the women so often. They cherish and value the women they seduce, they make them feel like they are the most important and beautiful woman in the world, and then promise them a night of passion and adventure, all the while being straight forward and honest about their intentions. I think most women would agree with me when I say that it's the men that most make you feel valued and worthy that are attractive to you.

However, if all you want is the sex, and you're willing to lie and cheat to get it, then I would say avoid these personal development forums. But if you are willing to improve your character and then work on how to value, cherish, and impress women, then I say go for it.

Good post, Parthon. I think being a "player" has the connotation of dishonesty. But sleeping with lots of women in and of itself is not a bad thing and can be done by becoming a magnetic person, without resorting to lies and deception.

Originally Posted by freddy

I think when it's all said and done. I will probably Just go about my old way of meeting women. I'm old school anyhow, and would not feel good about myself.
knowingly take atvantage of a girl like that. But it seems unfair, that men where created with a super charged sex drive. And women, with a take it or leave it operating sex system.: At least that the way it seems. ( Thanks again for all the post everyone) Peace to you all. Freddy

Glad to hear that you have rethought taking advantage of women. I'll let you in on a secret though...we can have just as high or higher sex drive as the men.