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Originally Posted by freddy  Perfect Sunday you wrote Sex carries disproportionately higher consequences for a woman than it does for a man.
They don't want to have an "oops" with a looser.
So, they're seeking the winners.
Following that line of thinking means the player is the winner. Becauce he sleeps with more girls, than the average nice polite guy could even dream about.
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By "winner" I think perfect sunday meant a guy that is kind, intelligent, responsible, that kind of thing. Not "winning" in the sense of who can sleep with the most women.
I think I can offer you a little female perspective here, because I went through a phase a couple years ago when I just wanted to be a "player." Mostly I just thought the "game" was fun. I enjoyed testing flirting techniques on guys, and seeing how successful I could be in attracting hot, fun men. I think that just having fun like this is just fine, as long as everyone is honest. You don't have to scare the girl away by bluntly propositioning her, but you can make your intentions known by how you act. Flirt a lot, admire her body (with with your eyes, or by making
tasteful comments), dance with her in a provocative (not sleazy) way. Whenever I felt like just meeting hot guys to have fun with, I would go to a club with my friends. The sexual vibe is already very high because of the thumping music, dancing, sexy clothes, and alcohol.
I don't know if this will help or not, but maybe try connecting with the girl through eye contact before you approach her. If I saw a hot guy I wanted to get to know, I would give him "the eye" through out the night, and this lets them know I am interested. Just please make sure she is sober enough to make clear-headed decisions. Don't take advantage of anyone.