I completely understand. I moved last year from Scotland where I belonged to a big group of close friends, and in my new home on the other side of the continent (Spain) I haven't made any real friends at all. On top of that I've lost many of the ones I used to have in Scotland.
I came to the conclusion that I haven't made friends here because on some level I don't want to. If I were desperate to make friends, I know I would meet the right people and it would just happen.
So, I'm going to ask those of you who say they can't make friends, do you really want to make friends? What are the disadvantages of friends that could be stopping you subconsciously?
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