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Old 05-06-2008, 03:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Zobra Buddha View Post
I feel that what I truly want is a relationship, not sex partner and he will not give this to me.
I think that's your answer. If you really want a relationship then it will probably be hard to just enjoy the sex and passion because you will get resentful that he's not giving you what you really want. And this will happen even though he's told you and you acknowledge that he's not willing to give it to you at this time.

I say enjoy it if you can, but don't fool yourself that it's more than stated or blame him for the fact that it isn't what you really want.
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