hi Ikk, that's really painful i can feel that however i am with Angela, i dont know exactly how old both of you are , but may be it is really the time that she needs to explore her life without any commitments though i am convinced this is not fair, plus she may regert it all, um sure as well that you can move on time will pass and you will forget all about this you will keep the good memories, throw the bad ones and will be busy in your life, may be involved in another relationship or even a longterm commitment what is important as i believe is not to live with the hope that you will meet and be back again with eachother once more, next time when you have the opprotunity to get back to her you should think twice ( as i have been deserted by a boyfriend twice- he wasnt convinced with our relation on that time, so when we were back he left again and the second time really hurts more, as you feel you were so stupid to give someone the chance to do it twice) and i lived for sometime on the hope that he will be back and that we belong to eachother but we were not he got married to another girl and till this moment i believe (may be just to relief myself) that he doesnt love her he just saw her more suitable to him. any how just go on with your life as angela said spend more time with your friends and your family ,start to know new friends i dont mean a new GF just new persons they will refresh your life -i did that- time will heal it all. and may be at the end she will come back ready for a commitment and you are still free - who knows.  |