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Old 05-06-2008, 05:45 AM
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Originally Posted by realloc View Post
He wants guys to be gentlemen like Cary Grant who practice manners and class.
Cary Grant also divorced four times, making him a rather poor example for your Doc Love' keep-your-woman system...

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If most guys knew how to keep a long term relationship successful then the divorce rate would not be over 50% where she files most of the time.
I don't think that guys alone are responsible for that figure.

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He found out the characteristics of the guys who she chose to stay with and created a model.
We don't live in a one size fits all world.

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One reason why male interest level isn't mentioned much is because it's a given. The man's interest level and her interest level are never the same. She only cares about hers.

If a man's interest level towards the woman isn't 80% or above after a few months of dating then something fundamental is turning him off and it is best for both to move on.

A man's interest level should not go above 89%. If he is in the 90's then he loses self control. At this point she would lose respect and lower her interest level. It's better if she likes you more than you like her.
ROFL. None of this is true in my world... but if it works for you, all the better.
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