 Male interest level
My overview does not give a complete picture of his 200 page book. He is really looking out for the woman's needs. He wants guys to be gentlemen like Cary Grant who practice manners and class. He also wants to make sure a guy chooses a woman who has a good attitude for a successful marriage. There is nothing fake about a guy who wants to improve himself to have better success with women.
For good men seeking answers there is a lot of bad advice out there. Mass media bashes men and guys are portrayed as wimps on television. If most guys knew how to keep a long term relationship successful then the divorce rate would not be over 50% where she files most of the time.
For the last 35 years Doc has studied the romantic choices women make. He found out the characteristics of the guys who she chose to stay with and created a model. I have tried a dozen models and this one is the easiest to understand and delivers results. The only way to find out if a model is good for you is to give it a try.
Summary of the author's view on male interest level:
One reason why male interest level isn't mentioned much is because it's a given. The man's interest level and her interest level are never the same. She only cares about hers.
If a man's interest level towards the woman isn't 80% or above after a few months of dating then something fundamental is turning him off and it is best for both to move on.
A man's interest level should not go above 89%. If he is in the 90's then he loses self control. At this point she would lose respect and lower her interest level. It's better if she likes you more than you like her.  |