It's so alien for me to hear about all those things like "should I or shouldn't I pursue a girl I like". I think our civilization went wrong at some point and screwed people up. I hear the same things from the ladies too, like : "Oh, I'm such a busy bee, I don't have time for a relationship..."
In my opinion there is nothing more pleasurable and giving sense to life than communication at all levels -friendships, love, courtship, etc.
In my mind all that career, fitness, etc. are just some hiding places for people who are afraid to open up and get hurt by significant others.
Or, like Lifefirst mentioned people don't feel worthy of love or litlle romance only because they have problems in their lifes. Unfortunately problems might stay a little bit longer than we expect or others will appear. Does it mean we should avoid being close or attracted to other people all together?
P.S. In my experience when I am in love and it's mutual, there are no problems or obstacles in the world which can stop me. I can handle absolutely anything.
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