Well obtaining true security comes from inner peace & getting there is different for each person. Usually someone will find this from one of the following: looking deep into nature, forgiving yourself, letting go of posessions, listening to an enlightened person's advice, constant acts of love to others. There's more I don't know what they are.
For me its nature, but usually more than 1 works. As for other emotions, I dunno I really haven't been in many relationships myself, I'm only a bit older than you. But just focus on the positives in him, yourself, & the relationship. |