[Spartan]

I think I harbor the belief that on a non-physical level there aren't many people who I could connect with and feel comfortable enough to be in a relationship with. Thus when I'm attracted to someone's physical appearance, I remind myself that on a non-physical level they are unlikely to be a good match.

I don't want to delude myself, create false expectations, or become attached to a particular outcome over which I have no control.

I'm not even sure I have the time for a girlfriend. I'm in to fitness and spend a lot of time working on my own fitness goals, which I struggle to fit in with everything else.

Also, I'm at university to get a degree, so that is my main priority. Thus I have little motivation to actively pursue girls and participate in silly courting rituals. I do want a relationship and I have the sex-drive of a typical 20 year old, however the effort required doesn't seem worth it at this moment in time.