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Originally Posted by realloc  Why can't I just be myself around a girl? Unless a guy naturally practices the system (3% of guys are naturals, 7% learn the principles, 90% don't know what's going on) then her interest level won't be as high as it could be.
Why do I care about her high interest level? Because I want to be with a girl who doesn't nag and is fun to be around. I want a girl's eyes to light up when she looks at me. I want a girl who even after 10 years of marriage still chases me around the coffee table once the kids are asleep.
I went into a relationship using his principles and raised her interest level in the 90's. Things were great for several months. Then I decided to be myself and relax on the principles. Her interest level slowly dropped and eventually she reached 49% and the party was over.
Now I follow the system and only stay with girls who have high interest level and a good long term attitude. Everyone benefits because now guys can consistently give girls the love they desire. |
If you went into a relationship and were not yourself for the first few months and then she dropped you after you started being genuine, then guess what she did you a favor. She was not for you. If you are going to go through life acting like a jerk which is what I think the system promotes, you will only get women of low self esteem and have very rocky relationships. If that is what you like go ahead.. use the system. IF you want a real relationship though You need to listen and BE You. Otherwise you are living a LIE. Do you want to live a LIE?