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Originally Posted by sheffy4  I think most of the posters here who have trouble with conversations could really benefit from actually being interested in someone, as opposed to acting like you are interested just to continue the conversation. |
But how can you be interested in someone before you start talking to them? Sure you can be interested in their looks,but how do you ask questions and genuinely be interested when you are only talking to them because you think they are attractive? I don't like the whole concept of feeling forced to talk to someone. Maybe thats why i dont have many friends or guys asking me out because i dont like to talk to them if we don't have to. Like,at school or work or when youre hanging out with friends,thats when conversation comes easy because you're there for other reasons not just to get to know this person. So then its easier. But if you're in a bar,on a blind date with someone,God that is the WORST!!