Why can't I just be myself around a girl? Why can't I just be myself around a girl? Unless a guy naturally practices the system (3% of guys are naturals, 7% learn the principles, 90% don't know what's going on) then her interest level won't be as high as it could be.
Why do I care about her high interest level? Because I want to be with a girl who doesn't nag and is fun to be around. I want a girl's eyes to light up when she looks at me. I want a girl who even after 10 years of marriage still chases me around the coffee table once the kids are asleep.
I went into a relationship using his principles and raised her interest level in the 90's. Things were great for several months. Then I decided to be myself and relax on the principles. Her interest level slowly dropped and eventually she reached 49% and the party was over.
Now I follow the system and only stay with girls who have high interest level and a good long term attitude. Everyone benefits because now guys can consistently give girls the love they desire. |