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Originally Posted by SmartAlx  that is precisely what Jamie and I are having trouble with. Our minds go blank and we can't even find any questions to ASK! |
Yeah i have this same problem too! I'm glad you brought this up cuz i kinda forgot about it,but i am curious what people will say too.
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And for me, it's not really an issue of insecurity or confidence. If I am insecure, I am insecure BECAUSE I can't think of anything to say or ask. I used to think that I was shy, but I recently realized that I really am not afraid to talk to people, I just don't know what to say.
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Again,agreed!
I feel like i could have all the confidence in the world and i could talk to ANYONE,ANYTIME,if i could only see cue cards or something
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I will say that occasionally I do find myself in a state where I am very talkative and the conversation just flows, so I know that I have it within me. I'm sure Jamie has these moments too. And it's not always because the person we are talking with is driving the conversation or we are comfortable with each other, although that does certainly help. The best is when my mind actually shifts gears and I get talkative. (I get extremely talkative when I am waaay sleepy and all hopped up on caffeine. Used to happen a lot in college.)
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That's how a lot of people are,they get talkative when they are sleepy,i know i can ramble ON and ON about the same subject forever,when i am tired! it's kinda the same as having a few drinks
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So one question might be, how do we get into this state of mind that just exudes conversation?
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Dont sleep a lot?
Just kiddin'. I dont know but i wish i knew cuz i love it when i'm in that state too. Where you don't even have to think,the thoughts just come to you.