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Originally Posted by Angela  Well, said, {aspiring}!
You folks who are complaining about how much you hate your friends, how you're not satisfied that they are doing their fair share, they are using you, etc..... It's not them, it's you.
Actually, it's always not them, it's always you.
As long as you refuse to take 100% responsibility for your life, you will be at the effect of external forces like these people who drive you crazy. You have a choice! You can be the source of your own satisfaction. |
So what do you suggest we do? What does taking 100% responsibility even mean in this case?
So you're saying to tell your friends the truth about how you don't wanna hang out with them anymore? Well, basically what I did.
But then again, I don't know if I'm more satisfied than before. It's about the same really.
I had a friend who would always ask me offensive/personal questions about me. I told him to stop crossing the line, but he never did. So I made him stop, and in my mind he doesn't exist anymore. It wasn't what I wanted, but it had to be done. Is this what you mean by taking responsibility?