If you want my personal opinion, once again... someone who really knows you, and cares about you... should care about you enough to at least try to express things to you in a friendly, or polite manner before coming out with what i like to call, "dangerous honesty."
Candy coating is one thing, but everyone knows people can be exceptionally sensitive. How much harder is it to politely point something out even one time before going into "dangerous honesty." It seems to me she took your feelings for granted, and i don't think that's a good quality of a friend.
Perhaps you were aggressive, and it's good you realize that you may have been. Either way, i suppose you could say this was a learning experience.
Probably the best thing you can do is take some time for yourself to gather your thoughts. Then, ask her what she thinks about what happened. Perhaps she does just speak her mind, but still cares about you. Asking her what she thinks about the issue you've had before you express your opinion could give you a lot of insight into how she really feels about you. Once you've got that info, you can probably make a more educated decision (i say this because i don't know the girl in the first place).
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