What I am thinking is, if I had been less aggressive and more, for lack of a better word, mature and understanding of the entire situation, it might have gone somewhere. She did say that she doesn't "sugar-coat" the "truths" that is, dont tell the other person they might be doing something wrong [according to her] in their lives, politely. And she said that she doesn't feel the need to do it with the people she is close to.
I feel like, if we really tried, we could have probably both understood the problem and made changes.
But then that requires us BOTH trying... She clearly didn't try that hard because she started attacking me and stopped listening.
WHY the HELL do I care!!
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