Too late? What has Steve Pavlina been teaching you in his articles? It's NEVER too late. Stop making excuses for yourself, "I'm not social enough, I haven't made friends all my life ... " and start living a life you want. Get yourself to places you know you can relate. Do you like video games? Do you like sports? Then go to those places and make a few friends if you want to find people with commonalities. When you have NOTHING in common, that's when you can learn the most actually. Take these things as opportunities instead of hindrances. Those differences are where my friends usually come from. Of course, you have to have an open mind to stay friends with them. Better yet, at times, an accepting mind. Anyways, when you envy people all your life, you feel like you have nothing important to give, but... you do. Find out what you're good at and stick with it. Develop new hobbies. Anything to get the ball rolling. Don't let others bring you down because that'll only make you feel worse. Stop being selfish. Selfish in a sense of not showing who you really are because you're afraid. Selfish in a sense where you are comparing your life to another's... their lives are different from yours. Why would you want to live somebody else's life when you can make your own? Show your true self. You're good people, you know that, yes yes, but do others?
Last edited by makessense : 05-03-2008 at 03:39 AM.
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