Most serious change in life doesn't even have to be massive. Massive effort directed toward a potential massive change is incongruent with harmonius life. Like seriously, do you know how much money, time and effort you would have to expend to actually approach 100 women let alone date them?
Other things in your life would suffer while your attention is on massive change. Friends, family, responsibilities, giving of yourself. Then even if you attracted 2 super hot women, there is no guarantee they would be people you really even liked.
That kind of goal focus can be a huge trap.
Smaller but consistent actions are less likely to leave you burned out, hated by your friends and family and emotionally and physically empty when your change finally arrives.
Reminds me of that saying: Be careful what you wish for....
Jennifer
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