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Old 05-02-2008, 08:30 PM   #177 (permalink)
JohnR
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Originally Posted by wolfgang View Post
Isn't comparing progress to one's peers usually a difficult measurement to use, right?
Yeah, you bet it is, but most judgments are made by comparison.

I assumed that in this case, Liz was judging herself by a standard set by her peers, or a societal standard, as evidenced by her comment, "I have accomplished very few things, some would say."

Until we have a firm grasp of our own standards, we use the default standards of society and acquaintances.

John
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